Clay and I went into this together, once we understood we couldn't give the money to a charity or our friends in Ghana, we didn't know what to do.... so after a big taking to from clays mother we realized that buying gifts for each other wasn't the best idea. We made a plan to go to Food Lion to give someone who looked needy help to purchase their groceries. We were very nervous. We went to the grocery store and a family was looking at cookies. they could only have one pack.. we thought this was a good family to give too. It was a family of five a Mother Father and three kids. When we gave them the money it looked like they went into shock. They said thank you and shook our hands... i guess you could say we felt the Christmas spirit.